I gave up many years ago fighting this. Just recently the best friend came back to visit. It was incomprehensible. Dear Patricia: Human sexuality is complicated, sounds like your boyfriend is confused and may not know who he is Will he be able to ever stop this.
I am not a detective and did not follow him all over town.
Eventually, Paul had the decency to meet me and talk it through, which I totally respect him for doing. In the last few years, gay rights have skyrocketed from a hush-hush subject to an everyday topic. Promise its over but just find out he was lying. I think emotionally I just distanced myself as Im still figuring what to do
The covenant seems to be between 2 individuals - a couple - not a group.